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How To Fly For Practically Nothing

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As I promised in my post about Easy Frugal Tips for Moms, here is the little trick I use to get flights for my family for almost nothing on Southwest. Of course I choose to use these flights for trips to Disney, but you could fly anywhere Southwest flies using this method.

I first heard about this when I was Googling how to get Southwest Companion pass (more on that later) and landed on a website called The Points Guy. He is basically a professional credit card churner, meaning he leverages credit card sign on bonuses to accumulate airline miles and cash.

The Points Guy had a post about Southwest’s Rapid Rewards Plus Credit card by Chase. You apply for the card, use it to make $2,000 worth of purchases in the first three months, and you are rewarded with 50,000 bonus miles to buy flights on Southwest.

I had never been one to sign up for credit cards before, as I had been raised to believe that credit cards are the gateway to debt and will get you into big trouble. In fact I think my husband and I had one or two that we regularly used and never applied for any others. We always used our credit cards responsibly, paying the full balance every month and this helped us achieve healthy credit scores.

How we did it

At this point I realized that my healthy credit score meant it was completely safe to apply for a couple credit cards and reap the rewards of the sign on bonus.

Given that we were planning a Disney trip, it wasn’t hard at all to put $2,000 on the Southwest credit card the first month it arrived, and I was overjoyed when the 50,000 bonus miles hit my account. A roundtrip flight to Orlando costs about 15,000 points, so that meant 3 of us were already covered!

Next, I had my husband repeat the same process so we could get another 50,000 bonus points and cover the other members of our family. We paid off both of cards that same month and then never used them again after that.

Ok so are these flights totally free or practically free?

Like I mentioned in the title, these flights are not COMPLETELY free. Each card has an annual fee of $79 that can not be waived and it is charged in the first month you receive the card.

The only other fee is the mandatory $5.50 September 11th security fee that can not be waived on any domestic flights.

So in total for our six roundtrip flights, we paid:

  • $79 x 2 cards = $158
  • $5.50 x 6 people x 2= $66
  • Total cost: $224

Considering the flights would have cost $275 per person for the trip, we saved $1,426!

Check my math:

$275 x 6 = $1650

$1650 – $224 = $1426

And, we still had points leftover after all of us flew so there’s an additional value there.

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Who’s ready to fly to Disney???

Southwest Rapid Rewards FAQs

Does Southwest have blackout dates or other restrictions on redeeming the points?

NOPE! This is one thing I love about Southwest. The points are used the exact same as cash when booking flights. If there is a seat on the flight for purchase, you can book it with points.

Southwest is also fantastic about cancelling or rescheduling flights if you need to. You can cancel and rebook another flight anytime without any fee or penalty. It seriously could not be easier! And (I have done this!) if the cost of a flight goes down after you’ve already booked it, they allow you to re-book it for the cheaper price.

Who is a good candidate for this card and who is not?

I would never recommend this (or any) credit card to someone who is already struggling with credit card debt. Only use the card if you have $2,000 worth of purchases to put on it that you are going to make anyway. And that you will be able to pay in full when the bill comes.

Also, your application will be rejected if you have applied for too many credit cards in a short period of time. The rule of thumb is “5/24”, meaning you can not apply for more than 5 credit cards in the last 24 months.

Doesn’t applying for more credit cards damage your credit score?

Having more credit cards only hurts your credit score if you’re carrying an outstanding balance. If you pay your bills on time, adding another credit card actually helps your credit score. This is because it increases your available credit, improving your debt-to-credit ratio.

Are you penalized for cancelling the card later?

Your points will not be revoked after they are awarded, even if you cancel the card. Your only requirement is to spend $2,000 in the first 3 months after applying for the card. After that, you are under no obligation.

For the same reason as above, it is better for your credit not to cancel cards. Since this card has an annual fee however, I do close it before the one year mark to avoid paying the fee on a card I don’t really use.

What about Companion Pass?

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Notice I chose Zari as my companion 🙂

So the process outlined above was:

  • I get a card and get 50,000 points
  • Husband gets a card and we get another 50,000 points
  • We end up with 100,000 points to use for our family’s flights

which worked great and we were very happy. But if we had known about Companion Pass at the time we could have made it even more amazing. You can bet this is exactly what I did the second time around!

If the SAME person accumulates all 100,000 miles (so just me, or just him), then you qualify for one of the best perks the airline industry has to offer: Companion Pass. This means for the rest of the calendar year AND the entire following year, anytime you fly you get to bring someone else along completely free. Think of how many trips you can take in that amount of time- there is no limit to how much you can use this!

On our second go around, we knew that one of us alone had to accrue all 100,000 miles. The way to achieve this is by getting two credit cards, but they have to be different cards. In addition to the  Rapid Rewards Plus credit card, Southwest also has one called the Rapid Rewards Premier credit card, and they have a business credit card. I went with the business credit card since it offered an even higher bonus of 60,000 miles.

(These bonuses are offered periodically throughout the year and they fluctuate in the amount, so definitely hold out and wait for a good one. You want 50,000 points or higher! If you apply for the Plus card through my link you will get the 50,000 point bonus anytime.)

If you’re thinking about getting the business card saying “but wait, I don’t have a business”, I’d tell you to think a little harder. For example, I got the business credit card because of this blog. Do you have a website? It doesn’t even need to be profitable. Doing childcare or teaching piano lessons count as a business, as does eBay or Etsy sales.

When all 110,000 miles posted to my account and I got the “Congratulations, you’ve earned Southwest Companion Pass” email in my inbox, it felt like Christmas morning!

How To Fly With Companion Pass

After you’re done with your happy dance, you can go ahead and start booking flights with Companion Pass.

First, book your flight for just yourself using either cash or points.

Next, go to My Travel and click “Add Companion”. It then automatically books your companion on the same flight as you, and the only thing you will pay is the $5.50 9/11 security fee.

Any questions about Southwest Rapid Rewards credit cards or how to earn Companion Pass?

Ask in the comments and I will do my best to help you out!

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Easy Ways To Be Frugal For Busy Moms

Do you ever read frugal living tips on blogs and think “this sounds great, but I have no time to do any of it”? With 4 young kids, you won’t ever find me making my own cleaning solution or reusable baby wipes. Still I manage to be thrifty, in a slacker mom sort of way.

These are my favorite EASY ways to be frugal that don’t take up much time at all.

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1. Nix eating out with kids.

I know, I know, cooking dinner every night is the bane of every mom’s existence. But paying for kids to eat in a restaurant (aside from the very rare special occasion) pretty much never makes sense. Your kid is going to order the Mac and cheese that cost 78 cents to prepare and you will pay 6.99 for it. Then your kid will eat half, get distracted, go home and ask for food. Might as well whip up the old boxed Mac and cheese at home and slice up some fruit to go with it.

Kids also don’t notice the difference in quality between a $5 frozen pizza from the grocery store and a $20 pizza from the pizza parlor. (Just saying!)

Having more super easy dinner recipes might help you get out of your dinnertime rut too.

Personally I love eating out and probably go out to eat a couple times a month. But we save the restaurant budget for date nights and leave the kids home. Much more enjoyable for us, and I don’t mind taking what I’d pay for their food and spending it on a sitter.

2. Coupon without cutting coupons.

Clipping coupons is another thing lots of thrifty people to save money, but it’s not for me. We don’t even get a newspaper, we just read our news online. We also clip our coupons online, with the Ibotta app.

Ibotta is the perfect way to save money on groceries when you’d rather play on your phone than cut coupons. Sign up today and earn your $10 welcome bonus!

3. Save on kids’ clothes

Resist the urge to buy overpriced kids’ clothes that will only get worn a handful of times! Many parents are more than happy to unload their kids’ clothes that they’ve grown out of. We frequently exchange clothes with friends or cousins.

You can also find great bargains at your local consignment store. Even better if you can buy the clothes there, use them, and sell them back! Don’t forget about eBay or ThreadUp for used clothes too.

If you really dislike hand me downs, you can also buy clothes on clearance in the off-season. Carters and Old Navy discount their clothes down to almost nothing at the end of every season, and for larger items like winter coats and boots Lands End Kids does a great clearance sale in the spring.

4. Tips for online shopping

Always go through Ebates when you shop online- the percentage of cash back you get varies, but you can almost always get 5% back. If you still don’t know about Ebates, I wrote a whole post about it here! I use them for everything and have gotten almost $300 back from them over time, with absolutely no effort.

Another little trick for online shopping- put the items you want to buy in your cart and then instead of completing the purchase, wait a day. Surprise! The next day you will almost always find coupons from that store in your inbox.

5. Buy (the right things) in bulk

Buying in bulk on things you always use, like toilet paper and household items, can save you a lot. Another safe bet is the big packs of meat, separate and freeze what you won’t use right away.

I’d urge you NOT buy the 500 pack of individual snacks. Not only will kids get sick of them before you run out, but all that excess packaging is a huge waste. Buy one big container of snack items and pack them in reusable containers for school snacks and lunches.

6. Always buy gender neutral baby gear!

I know you’re excited about finding out you’re having a girl, but take a step back before you run out and buy that pink stroller or crib. You are not going to want to re-buy big ticket baby items with future babies that come down the pipeline! Stick with white, gray, black, or green. You can always add a cover or accessory with a pop of pink or blue.

7. It pays (big bucks) to negotiate.

This one I learned from my husband. I’ve watched him negotiate everything from wedding vendors, to buying a mattress, to our minivan and our monthly cable bill. I can’t even estimate how many thousands we have saved over the years just by doing this, and many people don’t even try.

The rule of thumb for negotiation is, it never hurts to ask. “Can you do any better on the price?” is a good way to ask. If they move at all, you can probably get them to move more. If they say no, no harm done!

Best trick for negotiating things like cable bills? Call them and say you’re unhappy with the price and thinking of switching to a competitor. Their fees change very quickly when they think they’re about to lose a customer.

8. Always shop with a list.

Yes, you should always make a list for grocery shopping, but do you make a list for your trip to the mall too? What about *gasp* Target??? If you’re serious about saving money, you need to start. If its not on the list, don’t buy it.

I’m one of those people that can go to the mall to power walk during the winter months, spend an hour there, and go home with nothing. If you can’t do that, don’t go to the mall!

9. Don’t be afraid to be the mean mom.

Get used to telling your kids “no”. Don’t set up the expectation that they get things during outings, like special treats, toys, or souvenirs. When we go somewhere, I tell my kids ahead of time they will either a.) get to pick one thing, or b.) we are not going to be buying anything. Let them know ahead of time so they won’t be asking for everything they see.

In addition to helping your family be frugal, this habit will also help reduce entitlement.

10. Credit cards can be your friend

If you have good credit and always pay your bills on time, don’t be afraid to leverage credit card rewards! Some have amazing sign on bonuses, or a percentage of cash back on all your purchases. I will write about two that I use with great perks (including practically free flights to Disney for my entire family of 6) in my next post!

What are your favorite frugal living tips?

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Free Printable Easter Coloring Pages

Keep the kids entertained at the kids’ table this Easter with these adorable printable Easter coloring pages!

Free printable easter coloring pages

4 pages include a chick, Easter basket, patterned eggs, and bunny. Simple and chunky designs mean even the youngest artist can enjoy.

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Just download and print as many as you want.

DOWNLOAD HERE!

Elle and I got out the art materials (and some jelly beans to set the mood) and had an awesome little pastel-happy coloring session today. My kids love making art just about any day, but when there’s a holiday coming up they are even more excited to get creative about it!

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With lots of cousins celebrating Easter with us this year, I’ll have to print off plenty of extras. It will be a very welcome ten minute break from the sugar rush 😄

Have a Happy Easter everyone!

If you love these, tell me what other types of coloring pages and printables you’d like me to make!

Make Your Kids Feel Loved With This Simple Valentine’s Day Craft

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For all the crafty Moms out there, I’ve seen a million adorable crafts for Valentine’s Day on Pinterest (so many that I made a new board full of them!)

I am actually pretty awful at crafts and art projects in general. But I do make one special, simple craft for my kids each Valentine’s Day. The idea came from wanting to make my kids feel loved on this holiday, instead of turning it into yet another gift-giving occasion.

On Valentine’s Day, my children wake up to find a special Valentine from Mom and Dad on their bedroom door. It has their name on a big heart in the center, and positive affirmations about them on little hearts all around.

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My children love these so much, they read them over and over again. Last year, Elle asked us to read them out loud to her each night before bed. All of the kids kept them on their doors long past Valentine’s Day, until the paper started to get crumpled and ripped.

To me that just illustrated how much our kids need to hear positive messages about themselves.

Remember to include not only your child’s obvious strengths, but also ones they are working on or just starting to develop. This will promote the positive behaviors you want to see more of from your child. For example, my two middle children typically clash and don’t get along. Recently though, Zari has started being more helpful with Elle by helping her carry her bags in from the car or reaching things that are high up for her. On Zari’s Valentine, I wrote “We love how you’re a helpful big brother” to encourage him to see himself as a helpful big brother and continue the kind behavior.

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Add ons

A new idea I had for this year is to continue adding hearts when I catch them being good throughout the month of February. When they’ve done something kind or helpful, they’ll be surprised with a new heart on their door affirming their good choice. By the end of the month, they will each have a positive affirmation Valentine with extra hearts “dripping” down their door.

You can also develop kindness by having your children write what they love about each other and add it to their sibling’s door. This small gesture will make both children feel good and help give their relationship a positive boost.

Materials

All I needed to make these were:

  • A set of stencils- because I’m really THAT bad at art and can barely make a heart
  • Colored paper- I used neon paper because there were lots of different shades of pink, red, and purple
  • Scissors
  • Markers
  • Glue stick


A feel-good gift

If you want to encourage positive behavior and boost your child’s self-esteem, try this simple Valentine’s Day craft this year instead of gifts or candy.  Feeling good about themselves will feel even better than eating chocolate 😊

How will you make your kids feel loved this Valentine’s Day? What little gestures do you do to make your kids feel loved throughout the year?

SUPER Easy, Family-friendly Dinners for Slacker Moms

So it’s a pretty well-known fact by now that I’m a slacker mom who hates to cook. (I mean maybe in my dream world where someone else chooses the recipe, buys the ingredients, preps them, and watches my kids while I cook… then maybe I’d like to cook. But in the real world, NOPE.)

Fumbling around in the kitchen trying to prepare something while the little rugrats trash my house and demand my attention is not what I’d call fun. What I especially hate is when I put all the effort in, and then my kids take one look at the food and CRY. The only thing worse than trying to cook a nice meal is scraping that nice meal into the trash after the kids refuse to eat it!

Because of this, I’m constantly on the lookout for SUPER easy family-friendly dinners. Through lots of trial and error and scouring Pinterest, I’ve compiled this list of dishes that A) don’t require much time, skill, or attention and B) won’t end up in the garbage. These are recipes that ALL of my kids will eat (even kid #2 who would rather eat straight barbecue sauce than actual food).

Cheers to ending some of the mealtime chaos without eating food from the freezer or making another run through the drive thru!

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Impossibly Easy Cheeseburger Pie

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I think you can see why the title of this recipe attracted me to it. Even though my kids eat regular cheeseburgers, somehow they are always even more enamored with food in “pie” form. Equally true for casseroles. (Lucky for them they were blessed with fast metabolisms!)

Recipe by Betty Crocker

Easy Beef and Broccoli

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This authentic-tasting classic Chinese dish whips up in about 20 minutes, faster than our local Chinese joint can deliver! And you can customize the amount of sugar and salt to your taste. It’s really a lot easier to make than you think it is, and no need to tip the delivery guy.

See the recipe here from Oh Sweet Basil

Minestrone Soup

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All year long, but especially in the cold winter months, I find myself craving the warmth and comfort of a delicious hearty soup. Minestrone is definitely my number one favorite. And I love that I can sneak some beans and veggies into my kids when they only notice the taste of the broth and pasta.

This one might be best suited for a weekend, because it does take a couple hours to make. (Most of the time is just letting it simmer, so it’s not actually taking up 2 hours of your time!)

This recipe is by the hilarious Salty Mamas

Tator Tot Casserole

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Somewhere along the way my daughter caught wind of a meal called tator tot casserole and she would not rest until I made it for her. It’s definitely a little heavy for my taste, but the way my kids devour it, they should rename it “kiddie crack”.

Recipe by Craving Comfort

Easy Fried Rice

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My whole family loves Chinese food but I try not to do takeout too often, so this easy fried rice is a lifesaver. It’s all done in one pot, so WOOHOO for less cleanup! The best part? You can throw in whatever leftover meat you have sitting in your fridge- chicken, pork, steak, shrimp, even ham.

Recipe is from Five Heart Home

Pizza rolls

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Four ingredients, hardly any prep time, and a yummy dinner the kids will scarf down? What’s not to like?

Check out the recipe from Simply Stacie

Mini Chicken Pot Pies

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My kids consider anything that’s made in a muffin tin a “cupcake” so there’s built-in appeal for these mini chicken pot pies.

With only 4 ingredients, a little assembly, and 20 minutes of cook time, you can have a hearty, comfort-filled dinner on the table.

This is a great one to use up any leftover chicken you have on hand (those already cooked rotisserie chickens from the grocery store work too!)

Recipe from One Little Project found here

Oven Fried Chicken

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My kids LOVE fried chicken, but I absolutely hate frying anything. I’m always getting splattered with hot oil and inevitably my kitchen fills with smoke. Then there’s the greasy clean up to tackle. This oven fried chicken is the perfect compromise- crispy chicken for the kids without all the hot oil!

Check out the recipe from Life in the Lofthouse

Slow Cooker Pulled Pork

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Photo credit: all recipes.com

Another tasty dinner that couldn’t be easier with only 4 ingredients! Dump it in the slow cooker in the morning, come home 8 hours later and shred it, add your favorite BBQ sauce, and voila. We love it so much we can eat it with or without the bun!

Recipe from Allrecipes.com

Bookmark this post for the next time you’re in a dinner time rut!

What are your go-to dinners that are quick, easy, and family-friendly? Share in the comments!